142. Faith

Take a walk I'll hold your hands for now
It's happening, it's happening
Makes it hard to lose another night
I'll pretend that I'm a man for now
It's difficult, it's difficult
To soothe a wounded heart

Some part of the lyrics from the song Faith from Seven Collar T-Shirt.

I have a song that will remind me of the person I keep in my heart. And this song, remind me of one person.

How's life, everyone? It has been 6 months I didn't post anything here. Life continue. With all the goods and bullshits we can't control.

The song. Why I started with that lyric. This song is the song that always remind me of my friend who has a 'gift'. He is sick and about to die. He said he has less than a year. Yes, that is his 'gift'. His disease is the 'gift'.

In his life, he has a lot of dreams and I said I would love to help him get what he want at least one before he died.

To make things short, he asked me to marry him. Last month. I said no and the rest is history. It's so fucked up. I have my reason why I said no.

Not because I don't want to be a 'janda muda'.
Not because of his looks.
Not because I cannot make his dream come true.
Not because of love (bullshit).

I have my reason and he asked me to leave. And I did. I don't know will I still get the chance to meet him in his short lifetime. I've known him since primary school. And now I lost another friend.

This is so frustating but I won't make sacrifices for someone who won't sacrifice anything for me. That is the reason.

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Plus, the night after I posted this, I got to know that one version of the story he told me is not true. At all. I don't mind if he want to lie but it's like a totally different story from what he told me. I bet he is a psycho and I'm glad I didn't accept his idea to marry me.

That one story he told is so mindfucking because the truth is really not like what he said. I don't think I can believe all the things he told me anymore. I'm relieved I cut connection with him. I don't know why guys love to lie to me or take advantage on me. Fuck these bullshits. Aku malas nak layan. Aku tak rugi apa pun la. #MenAreDumb

So, these are all the bullshits.

Goodbye.

141. The single doesn't mean they are not in love

Maybe that girl who is still single is having problem within herself.

Maybe she is still in love with her ex. Maybe her ex boyfriend is a vocalist from a band and she knows things he sing is all about her. Maybe they have been together since he was no one but as he getting famous, they teared apart.

Maybe she is in love with someone everyone can see in the TV. That feeling only she knows because the Guy won't let her tell the World.

Maybe she is waiting for someone she cannot have. The one guy who have gone so far away with her heart in his hands but he doesn't realized it. And he found his Love there. He doesn't come back.

Maybe she is in love with someone she cannot meet again. Maybe the guy has met his God and left her in this cruel world. Maybe she is still surviving to let him go from her heart and open up to somebody new. But, she still come to the same place and send prayers to him from everywhere she go.

Maybe she is still surviving to help her family and want to spend more time and get more love from them. Her family which she had left them for years to pursue her dreams and come back just to make sure she won't regret the thing she didn't do when she had the chance.

Maybe she loves to be independent and have everything settled first only then she open up to somebody. Because she wants to be the Help to her partner and not the Burden. That is the love she already has towards someone she doesn't meet yet.

Love, loving, loved. In so many ways.